What about spiritual fears? The fear of relinquishing control of our lives to an invisible God. Or the fear of stepping out of our comfort zone. The fear of failing God and those around us who think we're doing great in our walk. Or even the fear of succeeding at something you weren't sure about and thus altering your life forever. I have possessed all of these fears at the same time. Correction: I still possess all these fears. And up until a couple of weeks ago, I let them dictate my life to an extreme.
But I promise you that these fears are not pathological, meaning I do have good reasons for them. Let me explain. Control? I like to have at least one of my hands on the steering wheel. I mean, I have to make sure God knows when to turn! And stepping out of my comfort zone? That's not a very attractive action. I like knowing my boundaries and knowing what's coming and feeling safe and secure. Then there's failure...I need to measure up to my own standards, even in the eyes of my Creator. To let myself fail even one self-expectation is to incur the disappointment and anger of those around me, including God. Success...That one is a little more difficult to find a realistic basis...Oh, I got it! Because if I discover I'm actually good at something that, say, glorifies God and encourages those around me, I would feel obligated to follow through on it.
Alright, so I'm sure you picked up my sarcasm, but in honesty, those are the exact reasons for these fears I have. I like to choose what to do with my life, where it's going to go, and what's going to happen. I like to be in charge because then I have nothing to fear. Or so it would seem. You see, living in fear isn't really living. It's allowing your shortcomings and your circumstances to dictate what you do with your life, how you interact with people, how you interact with God. To be afraid is to not trust. This is something I'm learning and I have wanted to share with you.
I'm into opposites, alright? Somehow, if I'm trying to decided how to change something, it helps for me to realize what the opposite is of whatever I'm doing wrong. In this case, after a lot of prayer and introspection, I realized that the only thing to counter my fear is to trust God. I agree that this is much easier said than done. To help us absorb this, I have a quote I'd like to share from Chuck Swindoll's book, Living the Proverbs. In his discussion on Proverbs 3:5-6, he writes,
"Trust refers to mentally and emotionally throwing oneself facedown on the ground - casting all hopes for the present and the future upon another, finding provision and security there...The term heart has little to do with the blood-pumping organ in your chest. The word is instead used throughout the Old Testament to refer to our inner self, that part of us that constitutes the seat of our intellect, emotion, and will: our conscience and our personality. So what is the Lord saying? He is saying we are to cast ourselves upon our Savior-God in complete trust, not holding back in any area of our mind or will or feeling." (p.41-43)
That hit me where it hurt when I read it. But it also encouraged me. God used these words to articulate what it means to trust Him. It means to be willing to put every particle of myself in His hands, recognizing that He is all-powerful but also all-loving; that He has my best interests at heart, just like Jeremiah 29:11 says:
"I know what I’m doing. I have it all planned out—plans to take care of you, not abandon you, plans to give you the future you hope for." (The Message)
We can trust God because He knows what He's doing. And we should trust Him because what He wants for us is the best we could ever hope for. What we want won't be able to hold a candle to the Journey God has planned for us.
So my challenge is not only for those who are reading this, but for the girl writing it as well: Sit back, relax. Take your hand off the wheel, be willing for God to take you places you're not sure of. He can show you so much about yourself and about life and what it means to truly live if your'e just willing to deny your fear and trust Him.
Lean on, trust in, and be confident in the Lord with all your heart and mind and do not rely on your own insight or understanding. In all your ways know, recognize, andacknowledge Him, and He will direct and make straight and plain your paths.
Proverbs 3:5-6 (Amplified)
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